SAMPLE AGENDAS IN LOVE LIFE COACHING

I have been emphasizing the need for your having a
clear agenda when you come to a coaching session.

Having explained that a coaching agenda is that which
you wish to take away from a coaching session, I felt
some examples might prove helpful.

Coach Luanna: the agenda we have this week is that
we have been feeling distanced from each other and
want to reconnect but while we have tried a few
things, it doesnt seem to be happening for us. We
would like to brainstorm for some ideas as to how to
correct this and maybe come up with some helpful
suggestions. The topic you listed about seeing each
other differently interested us and we wanted to
explore that as well.

Luanna, I am really concerned. I love my husband but I am just not
connected to the passion I used to feel for him, and I think he is feeling
this. I don't want him going off an finding some other woman. Can you help
me reconnect to my passion? I would like to see my heart felt participation in
lovemaking and really feel it.

Coach Luanna,
My agenda is, what I want to
take away from this coaching
session, is knowing how to
tell my wife that her nagging
me doesnt help. Maybe I
need to find out what I can
do to keep her from nagging.
I think it is both.

What I want is for my wife to
be supportive of me, approve
of me and love me, and for us
to have some peace in this
house. I am also interested in
those excercizes for lasting
as long as you want and
helping my wife to be
multi-orgasmic.
What I want to see is us
being more loving and
having even better than great
sex.

What we want to see Take away from this weeks session is
1. Better time management to have more time to get more
practice in on exploration :o)
2. Learn more about male mastery and to get into loving
means learning more. (woohoo from my wife.. my lover.)
3. Suggestions Please-- do you have any on how to explain this work to our
teenage son? He is wondering why we are acting "so corny with each
other." We told him we were doing coaching on loving each other more
and he rolled his eyes, but then a half hour later said, "It is sort of nice how
you aren't fighting as much recently." How much do we let him in on?

Guideline:
1.Determine your foremost overriding concern that
seems to keep you from your shared vision.
2.Decide what you want to TAKE AWAY from the
coaching session.
3.List exactly what it is you want to see in your
relationship in place of your concern to the best of
your ability to do so.

It is possible for two individuals in a couple to have
seperate concerns, and them both be addressed in a
coaching session.
Just be sure you both have clear agendas, your session
will be much more productive that way.

Also, know that you are in this together.Confidentiality
is for the two of you as a couple, your business is to
stay your business.As a couple you are here to work
things out together, resolve what blocks you have to
intimacy toward each other and achieve your common
vision.

Hey, Coach Luanna
Remember how we were talking about Looks of Love and
Heart Talks? We have been doing those. Amazing just
doesn't cover it. How something so simple can be that
powerful an experience is awesome. I thought you were
exaggerating when you talked about how powerful
something simple can be. Now we know you weren't.
The agenda this week is to find out more about Loving
Means Learning.
Also...
The exploring your body is part of loving yourself was
Great... exploring together even better. That Male
Mastery Exercize, and the erection response learning...
can we delve into that a bit more this week?

Coach Luanna,
The agenda this week is to help me. I
have intellectually forgiven him for
cheating on me, we have come to see it
for what it was. I think that is what is
holding me back in my progress in the
bedroom, is that emotionally it is not
yet fully processed maybe. We did a
heart talk and I came to the conclusion
that I was still holding unforgivenes. He
wants to help me and I want to move
past this. He is doing the trust
work, this isn't about him, its what I
want help for me about.

We had fun with the exploration
together homework, and you were right
the Liberator furniture really made a
difference. I cant believe he had bought
that and we never used it before now,
but I see why. This is how I know it for
sure... what the agenda this week is.

We ARE moving CLOSER to our common
vision, I want to see me make this
forgiveness work emotionally real for
me.

Coach Luanna,
What do we do about it feeling wierd to be so happy? We both
had a few "shifts in perception" as you call them this week
and it has made such a difference that it is just wierd to
see things so differently and feel happy about yourself and
your life. Not complaining but we may need to balance this
out a bit. My wife has taken to singing in the middle of the
day for no reason. I can't seem to keep a smile off my face
and the neighbors are looking at us funny.
She says to thank you and she wants to explore loving means
learning more. We have the steps down I think, but we want to
talk about that more. The feeling... stuff.

What I want see is us being this happy, how to maintain it
sustainably, and to get this Heart Talk and Loving Means
Learning thing nailed down, and the loving what is re
enforced too. We get it but we want to make sure it stays.
Man if you could bottle this, you would make a fortune!