LIFE COACHING IS NOT FOR

Love Life Coaching is not some "Oh, isn't that nice?" little
get together four times a month for three months. No, it is
an undertaking that will change your life. It's time for a
positive change. It has to be said though: "Life Coaching is
not for whimps."

Think about it. You cannot do the same thing you have
always done and expect different results. Change requires
effort and being willing to look at things differently.

Life Coaching is not for Whimps. I first saw that phrase
used about Motherhood too, on a card I gave a friend
after she had triplets in one of the worst time times of her
life. I think it was a catharsis that brought gut wrenching
laughter up from her toes, and tears to our eyes from us
both ending up laughing so hard, on her reaction to reading
that card. I don't think she had laughed in weeks before
then. She is a tough lady and one of the most fun people I
have been priviledged to know. She's a terrific person and
a great Mom.

Motherhood is not for Whimps. In much the same way of
motherhood... the day in and day out of life, the
commitment to love it takes, the dedication, and patience...
the Love Life Coaching process of growth together is
similar.

From the insemination of the idea of making changes that
will draw you closer and build on what you consider
important in life, Love and family and life together, to the
ideal of HOT MONOGAMY, is a lot to undertake. Gird
your loins!

LOVE LIFE COACHING IS NOT FOR WHIMPS*! Not
that I use the word whimp in a degrogatory way! Do not
underestimate the Weak Willed Whimp, powerful potential
is there, it only takes a few thoughts to activate it. We
are all on our own paths, the Weak Willed Whimp will come
to strength, or not. It takes choice, and change.

Again, the choice is always theirs. Of course, that could be
scary to the Whimp ! ... They are used to responding in
whimpish ways. If not a whimp, if not a whimp how are they
supposed to be brave? If they are now determined and
empowered, what the heck do they do with that?

So, usually unless somebody goes through coaching work....
or has some divine revelation or BOTH, they will stay in
the not so comfortable but familiar role of Whimp, until
courage is pressed into service by some life demand and
then the whimp shocks everyone! Do you think those boys in
Columbine loved themselves enough to speak up for
themselves when put down or believe differently and walk
away? Were they whimps? I suspect they had the courage
all along and did not know how to use it until they allowed
rage to overcome reason and find a dramatic exit.
You may have much more control over your whimphood than
that. Why not shock everyone subtly, and make changes you
may only have dreamed of in the process? Could it be
because more might be required of you?

Life demands of us some return for us being here. You may
as well make it suit you. Love Life Coaching helps you to do
that but, I am not going to sugar coat it for you.

It's not pretty. This is work that will sometimes have you
staring at parts of your inner self you didn't know existed,
horrified at beliefs you were carrying that you didnt even
realize you believed, crying for years of your behavior
molded by misunderstandings, seeking out within yourself
forgiveness for yourself and others;-- even as you are
laughing about the absurdity of it all, sometimes while even
having fun with the process of getting so much closer than
maybe you have ever been before with the person you
loved enough to partner with!
It's not pretty, but it has some truly beautiful results.
Kind of like the beginning of Motherhood, right?

You will never look at life the same way again, and your
life will change, if you put yourself into this. The weak
willed whimp leaves the cocoon and emerges a stronger
more determined person, when the basic tenets of loving
yourself take hold.

Strong determined people are often thinking people.
Thinking is a very important part of this Love Life
Coaching Process as you will see.
Cynicism has its place, skepticism serves it function. Any
concerns you have you can bring to me, but the bottom line
is you take what you believe on faith.

Bring out your cynicism and skepticism with respect and we
will look at it from a few different perspectives and then...
it is always your choice. If you do the work, it works. Even
if it seems simple or silly. You will see this for yourself as
I have and as countless others have.

You might wish to consider that a lot of times our
skepticism and cynicism are the shields we use in fearful
situations. No one likes to look and feel foolish.
With respect here... on occasion we all look like fools.
What? You didn't think you would get your turn? What if
you are not a fool at all, but simply on a learning quest?

The process of examining your thoughts beliefs and your
life as you knew it is not ALL hardship. On occasion, OK,
even pretty often.... it can be fun. Much of it depends on
your perspective. LOVE LIFE COACHING is not for
whimps, I realize that but there is no reason we cannot
work at having a bit of fun along the way to make the
process easier. Humor and Laughter and warmth and good
will and being in it together with love go a long way toward
making this much easier than you think. I think it is about
the feeling good... you don't mind doing what you need to so
long as it makes a difference and makes things better and
wow, do things get better.

OH! Lest I forget to tell you... there is ongoing
maintenance work as well, just in case you thought you
might always have the out to slide back into whimphood.
Not bloody likely. LOL. Like the gym, if you dont go - and
actually do the work, you dont benefit, if you let it slide,
you are going to feel that too. Trust me, the ongoing
maintenance in this Love Life Coaching- Loving Your Life
and Your Love LifeŠ, is much more fun than the gym! It all
depends on your perspective and how much creativity and
fun you wish to bring to the process. Love Life Coaching is
not for whimps, but it's not torture either, and the
benefits are many and pretty great.

Affectionately,

That Love Coach, Luanna
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