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What is Hot Monogamy? Hot Monogamy is not at all a moral issue or stance. Much more to the point, it is about developing a profound, deeply intimate evolving relationship that grows along with the two of you. That is a lot to take on for two people without adding others to the mix. |
"We love each other strongly and want things to work out but the romantic dreams seem to be slipping past us. " |
(A- Great Question! Yes, it will. There is a resolution to consider with regard to your wellbeing and desire not to have more children "any time soon." Part of the JOY of Sacred Sexuality is the Responsibility Taken Toward Your Individual Roles within it. Speaking with a qualified Physician regarding The many many choices you have in Birth Control Options and then diligently using them is part of showing love to yourselves. Are you willing to schedule an appt with your Doctor or the Clinic? Is more and better sex incentive for you to meet this goal? Let's look at the issue of time for the two of you. ) |
Custom tailored to your relationship, Love Life Coaching seeks to help you deal with your troubles, bring your own personal truths to light and shift perceptions toward loving yourself; making your relationship the best it has ever been or better, and educates you toward mind blowing sex with sacred sexuality. Give Love Life Coaching 90- 120 days and your very best efforts and you too can have Hot Monogamy! |
How is that possible? Hot Monogamy profoundly changes your life and even the world because of its three components: Personal Empowerment- Learning To Love Yourself more fully. EVERYONE SAYS... "LOVE YOURSELF OR YOU CANNOT FULLY LOVE ANYONE ELSE" If most people loved their neighbor like they love themselves-- the neighbor would be packing to move or filing a restraining order. Doubt that? Really LISTEN to your self talk for even half a day. That little voice of mind chatter that goes on in your head. Now if you talked to your neighbor like that for even weeks .... still think they wouldn't be filing a restraining order? Loving yourself. Already out there are Ten Step to Take to Love yourself More Fully. Here is one that is not specifically mentioned on the list as such, but is on the the list in a different form. Forgiving yourself and others... not condoning behavior but taking steps to correct it, let the criticism go and forgive yourself and others. WHEN YOU REFUSE TO FORGIVE YOU GIVE YOUR POWER AWAY-- You let whoever you refuse to forgive hold you in the palm of their hand because you are letting them determine YOUR behavior. LOVE YOURSELF OR YOU CAN' T LOVE ANYONE ELSE> not fully. Relationship Optimization- making your relationship the best it has ever been. THIS is involved also. HERE IS THE SHORT VERSION. WHY make the relationship the best it has ever been? (You tough enough for the love that takes?? ) How about this reason for WHY? among many others: CAUSE IF NO ONE'S GETTING ALONG, AIN'T NOBODY GETTIN IT ON! .... that is one of the most succinct reasons, there are more to be discussed in coaching. Sacred Sexuality... BETTER SEX, BETTER LIFE. SEX.. with SOUL, Heart, Love. Need more be said? Tantric Soul Sex relationship building that, with practice (and you are gonna love the homework!), brings you mind blowing sex that is an added part of your personal spiritual practice. Think about what getting along more with your lover and feeling better about yourself as a person will do for your life. Going to work with a smile about the person you love rather than a grouse list. Looking forward to getting together with them again enough to call in at lunch and say, well, lets just say.." nicely naughty little suggestions" of what you would like to do with them later .... or just to touch base and ask how they are doing... and tell them you love them ...just because. DO You know what it feels like to have had great sex the night before? Have that more often with the one you love and how do you think that would change your life? More feeling good, bounce in your step, ready smile to the world, everything not quite a bit of a drag... kinda like being in love makes the whole world better. Have that long term. Not the delirium but the grounded kind of love that is quiet fortitude for the life you want and know for certain that you are not alone in that. What is that worth to you? What is that worth to you ... in your little world, which impacts on the larger world. What the world needs now is love sweet love. YOU can do something about your life. Indeed, that is the ONLY person you can change. When you work TOGETHER AT THAT... wow. The power of the knowledge you walk away from Love Life Coaching is awesome in the way it helps defuse formerly insurmountable impasses between the two of you. Impasses that were enough to do you in, apparently, but enough to rob you of the joy you may have once had together. PUT A LITTLE LOVE IN YOUR LIFE... put a LOT OF LOVE IN YOUR LIFE. YOU do the work and it is yours. Go from that quiet little fear of ... 'will divorce, break up, seperation, happen to us?' --to calm and confidence, joy and peace. That alone puts out an energy that will find its way into the world without your trying. More patience at the office, with family, with neighbors, less stifling annoyance, more clarity, focus and balance. Purposeful living, loving by choice. What is that worth to you? You COULD adopt the stance that one funny person did on commenting about "why the marriage lasted so long...." "I never once considered Divorce. Murder, yes. Divorce? Never." -Unknown Is that really the path you want to adopt? Take the resolve behind I never once considered divorce, leave the rest, and make it work for you, both of you, all of you beautiful commited Couples, out there struggling to make it work, "so help you, God". Here's help. You can do this. SO? How does Love Life Coaching Work? |
What you learn and develop in Love Life Coaching will carry over into other areas of your life for the rest of your life. Love Life Coaching is an investment in your future and can profoundly affect your entire life and even the world. |
When two people genuinely love themselves, and each other, and have learned ways of relating that help them to get along well even when they hold opposite view points on a subject or two; and when the sex is so good that everything in your relationship works better, the intimacy and the devotion and the Love that you can communicate to each other from across the room....is palpable. The neighbors will be asking you what you have cause they want it! |
"Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world; indeed, it's the only thing that ever has." -Margaret Mead |
"Coach Luanna, I don't want to tell him, but I am wrestling with my feelings of not feeling the passon. What aan I do ? I love him and don't want to hurt him." |
It seems evident that you love him. Tell me what have you done so far to get the passion feeling back? Where are your thoughts on that process? There are some thought we can explore which are contributing to creating your feelings. Let us explore those. |