Client Input question
What Is HOT MONOGAMY?
Client Input question
What is Hot Monogamy?
Hot Monogamy is not at all a moral issue or stance. Much more to the
point, it is about developing a profound, deeply intimate evolving
relationship that grows along with the two of you. That is a lot to
take on for two people without adding others to the mix.
"We love each other
strongly and want
things to work out
but the romantic
dreams seem to be
slipping past us. "
(A- Great Question!
Yes, it will.
There is a
resolution to
consider with
regard to your
wellbeing and
desire not to have
more children "any
time soon."
Part of the JOY of
Sacred Sexuality is
the Responsibility
Taken Toward Your
Individual Roles
within it.
Speaking with a
qualified Physician
regarding The many
many choices you
have in Birth
Control Options and
then diligently using
them is part of
showing love to
yourselves.
Are you willing to
schedule an appt
with your Doctor or
the Clinic?
Is more and better
sex incentive
for you to meet
this goal?
Let's look at the
issue of time for
the two of you. )
Custom tailored to your relationship, Love Life Coaching seeks to help
you deal with your troubles, bring your own personal truths to light and
shift perceptions toward loving yourself; making your relationship the
best it has ever been or better, and educates you toward mind blowing
sex with sacred sexuality. Give Love Life Coaching 90- 120 days and
your very best efforts and you too can have Hot Monogamy!
How is that possible?

Hot Monogamy profoundly changes your life and even the world
because of its three components:

Personal Empowerment- Learning To Love Yourself more fully.
EVERYONE SAYS...
"LOVE YOURSELF OR YOU CANNOT FULLY LOVE ANYONE ELSE"
If most people loved their neighbor like they love themselves-- the
neighbor would be packing to move or filing a restraining order.
Doubt that? Really LISTEN to your self talk for even half a day. That
little voice of mind chatter that goes on in your head. Now if you talked
to your neighbor like that for even weeks .... still think they wouldn't be
filing a restraining order?
Loving yourself. Already out there are Ten Step to Take to Love
yourself More Fully. Here is one that is not specifically mentioned on the
list as such, but is on the the list in a different form.
Forgiving yourself and others... not condoning behavior but taking steps
to correct it, let the criticism go and forgive yourself and others. WHEN
YOU REFUSE TO FORGIVE YOU GIVE YOUR POWER AWAY-- You
let whoever you refuse to forgive hold you in the palm of their hand
because you are letting them determine YOUR behavior.
LOVE YOURSELF OR YOU CAN' T LOVE ANYONE ELSE> not fully.


Relationship Optimization- making your relationship the best it has ever
been. THIS is involved also. HERE IS THE SHORT VERSION.
WHY make the relationship the best it has ever been?
(You tough enough for the love that takes?? )
How about this reason for WHY? among many others:
CAUSE IF NO ONE'S GETTING ALONG, AIN'T NOBODY GETTIN
IT ON! .... that is one of the most succinct reasons, there are more to be
discussed in coaching.

Sacred Sexuality... BETTER SEX, BETTER LIFE. SEX.. with SOUL,
Heart, Love. Need more be said?

Tantric Soul Sex relationship building that, with practice (and you are
gonna love the homework!), brings you mind blowing sex that is an added
part of your personal spiritual practice.

Think about what getting along more with your lover and feeling
better about yourself as a person will do for your life.
Going to
work with a smile about the person you love rather than a grouse list.
Looking forward to getting together with them again enough to call in at
lunch and say, well, lets just say.." nicely naughty little suggestions" of
what you would like to do with them later .... or just to touch base and ask
how they are doing... and tell them you love them ...just because.

DO You know what it feels like to have had great sex the night
before?
Have that more often with the one you love and how do you think
that would change your life?
More feeling good, bounce in your step,
ready smile to the world, everything not quite a bit of a drag...
kinda like being in love makes the whole world better.
Have that long
term.
Not the delirium but the grounded kind of love that is quiet
fortitude for the life you want and know for certain that you are not
alone in that. What is that worth to you?

What is that worth to you ... in your little world, which impacts on
the larger world.
What the world needs now is love sweet love. YOU can do something
about your life. Indeed, that is the ONLY person you can change. When
you work TOGETHER AT THAT... wow. The power of the knowledge you
walk away from Love Life Coaching is awesome in the way it helps defuse
formerly insurmountable impasses between the two of you. Impasses that
were enough to do you in, apparently, but enough to rob you of the joy
you may have once had together.
PUT A LITTLE LOVE IN YOUR LIFE... put a LOT OF LOVE IN
YOUR LIFE. YOU do the work and it is yours.
Go from that quiet
little fear of ... 'will divorce, break up, seperation, happen to us?' --to
calm and confidence, joy and peace.
That alone puts out an energy that will find its way into the world
without your trying. More patience at the office, with family, with
neighbors, less stifling annoyance, more clarity, focus and balance.
Purposeful living, loving by choice. What is that worth to you?

You COULD adopt the stance that one funny person did on commenting
about "why the marriage lasted so long...."

"I never once considered Divorce. Murder, yes. Divorce? Never."
-Unknown

Is that really the path you want to adopt? Take the resolve behind I
never once considered divorce, leave the rest, and make it work for you,
both of you, all of you beautiful commited Couples, out there struggling
to make it work, "so help you, God". Here's help.
You can do this.

SO? How does Love Life Coaching Work?
What you learn and develop in Love Life Coaching will carry over
into other areas of your life for the rest of your life.
Love Life Coaching is an investment in your future and can
profoundly affect your entire life and even the world.
When two people genuinely love themselves, and each other, and have
learned ways of relating that help them to get along well even when they
hold opposite view points on a subject or two; and when the sex is so
good that everything in your relationship works better, the intimacy and
the devotion and the Love that you can communicate to each other from
across the room....is palpable. The neighbors will be asking you what you
have cause they want it!
"Never doubt that
a small group of
thoughtful,
committed citizens
can change the
world; indeed, it's
the only thing that
ever has."
-Margaret Mead
"Coach Luanna, I
don't want to tell
him, but I am
wrestling with my
feelings of not
feeling the passon.
What aan I do ?
I love him and don't
want to hurt him."
It seems evident
that you love him.
Tell me what
have you done so
far to get the
passion feeling
back? Where are
your thoughts on
that process?
There are some
thought we can
explore which
are contributing
to creating your
feelings. Let us
explore those.